What to Wear to Your Family Photo Session (And Actually Feel Good About It)
The session is booked, the location is locked in (city skyline, beach boardwalk, or somewhere leafy and local), and now you’re left facing the ultimate outfit puzzle: How do we all look great without looking like we tried too hard?
If you’re feeling a little overwhelmed, you’re not alone—and you’re definitely not the first to panic-Google “what to wear to a family photo session.” But don’t worry. With a few helpful tips, you’ll have everyone looking coordinated, confident, and most importantly—like themselves.
Oh—and while you're here: my Mother’s Day Photo Session Promo is live! More on that at the bottom.
1. Choose a Color Palette, Not Matching Outfits
Gone are the days when “matching” meant identical outfits. You don’t need to be twinning with your partner or have all the kids in the same color shirt. Instead, think cohesive.
Pick 2–3 main colors and mix in some neutrals to balance things out. Soft blues, creams, muted greens, or warm earth tones work really well in most outdoor settings. Jewel tones are great in the fall, and pastels are lovely in spring and summer.
Easy tip: Start with one outfit you really love (usually yours!), and build the rest of the family around that.
2. Add Texture for Visual Interest
Solid colors are a great foundation, but texture brings your photos to life. Think chunky knits, linen shirts, flowy cotton dresses, or corduroy overalls. These little details catch the light and add depth to your photos—without needing bold patterns or complicated styling.
Patterns are totally okay too! Just use them in moderation. One or two family members in prints is perfect; everyone in different patterns can get a little busy.
3. Skip Logos and Bright Neons
Subtle is the name of the game when it comes to what photographs well. Large logos, writing, or character graphics can pull attention away from the moment (and from those sweet smiles you came here for!).
The same goes for neon colors—super bright shades can reflect back onto skin and mess with the lighting. Stick with soft, rich, or natural tones that complement your location and season.
4. Dress for Movement (Because We’re Gonna Move!)
Your family session isn’t just standing in one spot and saying “cheese.” We'll walk, explore, play, and maybe even chase a toddler or two. Comfort matters!
Clothing that moves—like flowy dresses or relaxed-fit shirts—adds a little life to your photos. And when you’re comfortable, you’re more likely to be relaxed and in the moment (which makes for the best photos!).
👟 Also: consider the shoes. We might be on grass, gravel, boardwalks, or cobblestone—so plan for walking!
5. Think Seasonally and Logistically
Where we’re shooting can help guide your wardrobe choices. Fall in NJ? Rich rusts, mustard, and forest green will look beautiful against colorful leaves. A city shoot in NYC? Neutrals, denim, or pops of color can really work against the urban backdrop. Summer beach session? Light tones, creams, and soft blues are perfect.
If we’re outdoors, think about the weather too—especially for little ones. Layer up for cooler temps, and go light and breathable for warmer days.
6. Keep Kids Comfortable and Happy
Let’s be real: if your child is uncomfortable, it’s going to show. The goal is to let kids be themselves—just slightly polished. Think about what they love wearing, and try to pick outfits that are soft, breathable, and not too fussy.
Skip the itchy sweaters and super tight collars. If your child is comfortable, they’re much more likely to smile, play, and be their awesome selves.
🍎 And yes, snacks are always welcome. Happy kids = happy photos.
7. Try It All On Before the Session
This one’s easy to overlook, but trust me—trying on outfits ahead of time can save you a lot of stress.
Lay everything out together, or even better, do a quick dress rehearsal a few days before. That way, you can make sure everything fits, nothing’s stained, and it all works together as a group. (And you'll have time to hunt for that one missing sock.)
8. Pack a Backup (Just in Case)
Let’s face it—family life is full of surprises. Whether it’s a juice box mishap, a muddy puddle, or a baby who decides their outfit isn’t working for them… having a backup plan is a good idea.
A small bag with an extra outfit for the kids, some wipes, and maybe a favorite toy or snack can go a long way.
9. Be Yourselves
This might be the most important tip of all. The best photos aren’t the ones where everything is “perfect”—they’re the ones that feel like you.
So yes, plan the outfits. But also… show up as your family is. Snuggly, silly, a little wild, full of personality. Let your kids run, let yourselves laugh, and trust that we’ll capture the magic that happens in the in-between moments.
🌸 Don’t Miss: My Mother’s Day Photo Promo
While you’re getting inspired with outfit ideas, it might be the perfect time to book a session!
Now through May 19, I’m offering a special Mother’s Day Photo Session for $350 (regularly $400).
It includes:
A relaxed 1-hour family session at a location in NYC or Northern NJ
50+ edited images in a private online gallery
10 high-resolution digital downloads (with the option to purchase more)
The best part? You can schedule your session anytime through August 31—so if you’re waiting for beach weather or golden fall leaves, you’re covered.
🌿 Click here to book your spot or send me a message—I’d love to hear from you.
Wrapping It All Up
So, what should you wear to your family photo session?
Pick a color palette you love
Add texture for a little extra depth
Keep comfort top of mind (especially for the kiddos!)
Try everything on ahead of time
Bring a backup bag (just in case!)
Most importantly—just be yourselves
Coordinating outfits can feel like a puzzle, but with a little planning and some simple tips, you’ll be more than ready. And remember, your session isn’t just about the clothes. It’s about documenting this season of life, with all the love, laughter, and personality that makes your family yours.
And hey, if you’re due for updated photos—or just want an excuse to celebrate motherhood—you know where to find me.
